"I was finding a time to ask you and Jiang-guniang," he answers. She would probably be better to answer as she'd actually been married. "To pick a date that might be good." They didn't really have a service available to them, so family was the next best thing.

"I still have to make the suits." And yes, he's going to make them by hand because that's just how your didi rolls. Extra in every way. "How is your arm?"